If you weren’t familiar with the Stanford University Sexual Assault Case until this week don’t feel bad. However, if you haven’t heard of it by now, you’re seriously off-grid and might consider getting out from under that rock.
I have never read anything quite as powerful and moving as the victims 7,244-word statement to the court.
Nor have I read anything as completely ridiculous and pompous as the court statement from Dan A.Turner, the father of the convicted abuser Brock Allen Turner.
And I’ve never heard a more inappropriate sentencing delivered by a judge.
WOW… this whole ordeal has been quite a study in this mess we call JUSTICE.
So many have personally experienced the injustice of our judicial system clearly described by this victim’s story.
I try not to judge those who feel strongly about the injustices they’ve suffered due to their race, religion, lifestyle preferences, economic standing, gender or the color of their skin,… ESPECIALLY, if I have no personal experience with their particular set of circumstances.
“Never criticize someone until you’ve walked a mile in their moccasins.”
Such an understatement… So simple and true….Taken from such a valuable poem, titled Judge Softly and written by Mary T Lathrap in 1895. Surprised it wasn’t written by a wise Tribal Chief like we all imagined? Read it Here in entirety, it’s a life changer.
Thank goodness the victim’s 7,244 words provided a much needed walk in her moccasins, pine needle covered and all.
She eloquently expressed the unspeakable pain she had to endure due to being sexually assaulted by Brock Allen Turner.
And more importantly her words highlighted how her pain was exacerbated by the inequities of our court system.
She clarified that the trial, the sentencing and the legal system were “irrevocably marred” by male and class privilege.
Let me add one more tainting factor… Narcissism.
Brock Allen Turner encompasses all three of these factors.
It is truly sickening just how many examples there are of how narcissists manipulate our court system to be their personal stage.
This is when I go all Norma Rae and want to jump up on the table tops…
We are led to believe our court systems are fair and just. They are not!!
That all juries & judges are intelligent and honorable. They are not!!
Our “Judicial” system is supposed to be where courts and judges deliver judgments of JUSTICE.
It is supposed to punish the bad guys and protect the good guys. But, our “Judicial” system is badly BROKEN.
And NEVER is that more obvious then when you’re dealing with a Narcissist in the Judicial System:
OJ Simpson (sorry OJ fans)… Jodi Arias… Tom Brady (sorry Brady fans)… Dan A. Turner… My ex-husband…
Aha… segue into the story I’ve started started to write hundreds of times and finally the outrageousness of the Stanford University Sexual Assault Case has sparked me to tell.
I have been exposed to a side of corruption and injustice I wish I’d remained naive to forever. Because until my divorce from my Covert Narcissist Ex-Husband (CNEH), I had no idea such a lack of integrity could exist in our “Judicial” system.
He sent the police to my home so many times that the awful anxiety me and my two younger children used to feel upon seeing flashing police car lights in our driveway, eventually became replaced with an even sadder resiliency.
In the past 7 years+ since my divorce… he has petitioned the courts (Family, Criminal AND Small Claims) over 16 times…
A few were thrown out of court, but the rest somehow wormed their way through the whole court system folly. He had so many court actions against me, in so many different courts… sometimes 3 open cases would overlap at the same time.
(Note: each court petition takes between 6-10 months of courtroom sessions to resolve.)
If you do the math, that’s over 11 years…. 140 months…. over 200 court dates crammed into the past 7 years !!! And we have a court date this Monday… He. Will. Never. Stop!!
It is clearly obvious my CNEH is abusing our legal court system and wasting a whole lot of their time & money… using it as a platform for his personal vendetta against me and his inability to move-on and let me go.
There are hundreds of articles written on this phenomenon. And no matter how much we try to educate the court system and judges on this type of abuse… it just continues…
My story is not unique… it is sadly redundant and almost follows word-for-word with every other victim’s story of narcissist abuse via our “Judicial” system. We all share the same moccasins, just in slightly different shades, and we will graciously offer you to walk in them if you’d like….
Because we know, unless you personally experience such outrageous atrocities in our court systems, you would never believe what we’ve endured.